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10 music, movie and book questions to explore your taste

Talk about playlists, watching films and reading habits. Learn how each of you enjoys a story before recommending something to a friend or partner.

Compare your choices in this quiz

How to use these questions

You do not have to answer everything at once. Choose independently, then share a reason or a memory. Skip anything that feels uncomfortable, and let different answers be different.

10 questions to get you talking

  1. Listening to music?

    Which would you choose?

    • The lyrics
    • The melody
  2. Your playlist?

    Which would you choose?

    • One song on repeat
    • Always discovering
  3. Song tempo?

    Which would you choose?

    • Fast and upbeat
    • Slow and calm
  4. Music genre?

    Which would you choose?

    • Ballads
    • Dance
  5. Bands or idols?

    Which would you choose?

    • Band sound
    • Idol performances
  6. Jazz or classical?

    Which would you choose?

    • Jazz
    • Classical
  7. Hip-hop or R&B?

    Which would you choose?

    • Hip-hop
    • R&B
  8. Soundtracks?

    Which would you choose?

    • TV drama
    • Film
  9. Song lyrics?

    Which would you choose?

    • Memorize and sing
    • Just hum along
  10. At a concert?

    Which would you choose?

    • Sing and jump
    • Listen quietly

Take the conversation a little further

  • Which work best captures your taste?
  • What scene or lyric would you like to discuss together?
  • Which recommendation should we try next?

Music and movie questions

Matching on 7 out of 10 questions gives you 70%. Pick an answer that surprised you and ask what made your partner choose it.

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Can we do this long-distance?
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Does a low compatibility score mean a bad relationship?
The score is the percentage of matching choices in these questions. It is not a personality assessment or a prediction of your relationship. Use a different answer to ask what feels comfortable for each of you.