10 questions to ask friends · Friendship conversation starters

10 questions to get you talking

1. 01

   Hanging out with friends?

   Which would you choose?

   • Restaurant hopping
   • Chatting at a café
2. 02

   Friend group size?

   Which would you choose?

   • Just two of us
   • A big noisy group
3. 03

   Making friends?

   Which would you choose?

   • Start the conversation
   • Let it happen naturally
4. 04

   Old friends or new?

   Which would you choose?

   • Old and comfortable
   • New and exciting
5. 05

   Birthday gift for a friend?

   Which would you choose?

   • Something useful
   • Something sentimental
6. 06

   A friend’s problem?

   Which would you choose?

   • Listen to the end
   • Give real advice
7. 07

   When a friend messes up?

   Which would you choose?

   • Tell them right away
   • Mention it quietly later
8. 08

   Making plans?

   Which would you choose?

   • I suggest first
   • I join when invited
9. 09

   Last-minute plans?

   Which would you choose?

   • Love them
   • Prefer planning ahead
10. 10

    At a friend’s place?

    Which would you choose?

    • Make myself at home
    • Polite guest mode

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Before you start

Can we do this long-distance?

Read the questions together on a call, or try the quiz by link. One person answers first and sends an invitation; the other can answer later.

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You can start the quiz with a nickname, without signing up. Sign in if you want to save results to your account and open them on another device.

Does a low compatibility score mean a bad relationship?

The score is the percentage of matching choices in these questions. It is not a personality assessment or a prediction of your relationship. Use a different answer to ask what feels comfortable for each of you.