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10 questions to ask your travel buddy before a trip

Planning a trip with a friend or partner? Talk through itineraries, budgets and downtime before you book, with questions about your travel styles.

Compare your choices in this quiz

How to use these questions

You do not have to answer everything at once. Choose independently, then share a reason or a memory. Skip anything that feels uncomfortable, and let different answers be different.

10 questions to get you talking

  1. Planning a trip?

    Which would you choose?

    • A detailed itinerary
    • A loose plan and plenty of freedom
  2. A morning on vacation?

    Which would you choose?

    • Up early to explore
    • Sleep in and start slowly
  3. Your accommodation budget?

    Which would you choose?

    • A beautiful place to unwind
    • Just a comfortable place to sleep
  4. Lost in a new city?

    Which would you choose?

    • Check the map right away
    • Explore this little street first
  5. A rainy day on your trip?

    Which would you choose?

    • Find a cozy café
    • Keep exploring under an umbrella
  6. Packing your bag?

    Which would you choose?

    • Just the essentials
    • A little extra, just in case
  7. Your favorite travel photos?

    Which would you choose?

    • Scenery and candid moments
    • Photos of us together
  8. Where do we eat on our trip?

    Which would you choose?

    • A place we researched
    • Somewhere we stumble upon
  9. The best part of a trip?

    Which would you choose?

    • Trying something new
    • Relaxing with nothing to do
  10. Choose our next destination.

    Which would you choose?

    • Mountains, sea and nature
    • A city full of things to explore

Take the conversation a little further

  • What is your one must-do on this trip?
  • Which part of the trip would you rather not cut costs on?
  • How could we change the plan if one of us gets tired?

Travel buddy questions

Matching on 7 out of 10 questions gives you 70%. Pick an answer that surprised you and ask what made your partner choose it.

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Before you start

Can we do this long-distance?
Read the questions together on a call, or try the quiz by link. One person answers first and sends an invitation; the other can answer later.
Do we need an account?
You can start the quiz with a nickname, without signing up. Sign in if you want to save results to your account and open them on another device.
Does a low compatibility score mean a bad relationship?
The score is the percentage of matching choices in these questions. It is not a personality assessment or a prediction of your relationship. Use a different answer to ask what feels comfortable for each of you.