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10 weekend and hobby questions · What should we do together?

Staying in, going out or trying a hobby? Compare how you like to recharge before planning a weekend date or a day with friends.

Compare your choices in this quiz

How to use these questions

You do not have to answer everything at once. Choose independently, then share a reason or a memory. Skip anything that feels uncomfortable, and let different answers be different.

10 questions to get you talking

  1. A day off starts with?

    Which would you choose?

    • Sleeping in
    • Up early for a long day
  2. How do you recharge?

    Which would you choose?

    • Lounging at home
    • Getting outside
  3. Plans for a day off?

    Which would you choose?

    • Set in advance
    • Whatever I feel like
  4. A weekend afternoon?

    Which would you choose?

    • Relaxing at a café
    • Walking in the park
  5. Your hobbies?

    Which would you choose?

    • Active ones
    • Making things by hand
  6. A new hobby?

    Which would you choose?

    • Yoga or Pilates
    • Drawing or crafts
  7. Gaming?

    Which would you choose?

    • Solo and immersive
    • With friends
  8. Board games or video games?

    Which would you choose?

    • Board games
    • Video games
  9. Jigsaw puzzles?

    Which would you choose?

    • Until it is done
    • I give up halfway
  10. Reading or watching?

    Which would you choose?

    • A book
    • Binge a series

Take the conversation a little further

  • What would you like to do and when would you like to rest?
  • How could we make room for different hobbies in one day?
  • What new hobby would you like us to learn together?

Weekend and hobby questions

Matching on 7 out of 10 questions gives you 70%. Pick an answer that surprised you and ask what made your partner choose it.

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