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10 fun would you rather questions for friends and couples

Invisibility or mind reading? Choose between playful imaginary possibilities when you are bored, on a date or chatting long-distance, then explain your choice.

Compare your choices in this quiz

How to use these questions

You do not have to answer everything at once. Choose independently, then share a reason or a memory. Skip anything that feels uncomfortable, and let different answers be different.

10 questions to get you talking

  1. Pick a superpower.

    Which would you choose?

    • Flying
    • Teleporting
  2. Talk to animals?

    Which would you choose?

    • Chat with dogs
    • Hear what cats think
  3. A time machine?

    Which would you choose?

    • To the past
    • To the future
  4. Invisible or mind reading?

    Which would you choose?

    • Invisibility
    • Mind reading
  5. One season forever?

    Which would you choose?

    • Spring
    • Autumn
  6. One food forever?

    Which would you choose?

    • Ramyeon
    • Tteokbokki
  7. A 30-hour day?

    Which would you choose?

    • More sleep
    • More play
  8. Winning the lottery?

    Which would you choose?

    • Travel the world now
    • Keep quiet and plan
  9. One item on a desert island?

    Which would you choose?

    • A knife
    • A lighter
  10. A companion on a desert island?

    Which would you choose?

    • A survival expert
    • A funny friend

Take the conversation a little further

  • How would you use your choice for just one day?
  • What is one good thing about the option you did not choose?
  • Can we invent our own would you rather question?

Would you rather questions

Matching on 7 out of 10 questions gives you 70%. Pick an answer that surprised you and ask what made your partner choose it.

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Before you start

Can we do this long-distance?
Read the questions together on a call, or try the quiz by link. One person answers first and sends an invitation; the other can answer later.
Do we need an account?
You can start the quiz with a nickname, without signing up. Sign in if you want to save results to your account and open them on another device.
Does a low compatibility score mean a bad relationship?
The score is the percentage of matching choices in these questions. It is not a personality assessment or a prediction of your relationship. Use a different answer to ask what feels comfortable for each of you.