10 questions for couples · Get to know your partner
Conversation starters for date night or a long-distance call. Talk about affection, messages and the way you like to spend time together.
Compare your choices in this quiz
How to use these questions
You do not have to answer everything at once. Choose independently, then share a reason or a memory. Skip anything that feels uncomfortable, and let different answers be different.
10 questions to get you talking
First date spot?
Which would you choose?
When you like someone?
Which would you choose?
Confessing feelings?
Which would you choose?
How often to text?
Which would you choose?
Pet names?
Which would you choose?
Planning dates?
Which would you choose?
Paying for dates?
Which would you choose?
Celebrating anniversaries?
Which would you choose?
Surprise events?
Which would you choose?
Gifts?
Which would you choose?
Take the conversation a little further
- What small gesture makes you feel cared for?
- How would you like to say you need some time alone?
- What would make an anniversary feel special to you?
Questions for couples
Matching on 7 out of 10 questions gives you 70%. Pick an answer that surprised you and ask what made your partner choose it.
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Before you start
- Can we do this long-distance?
- Read the questions together on a call, or try the quiz by link. One person answers first and sends an invitation; the other can answer later.
- Do we need an account?
- You can start the quiz with a nickname, without signing up. Sign in if you want to save results to your account and open them on another device.
- Does a low compatibility score mean a bad relationship?
- The score is the percentage of matching choices in these questions. It is not a personality assessment or a prediction of your relationship. Use a different answer to ask what feels comfortable for each of you.